update about gerard way nu metal hands pose with your help and after much searching, I finally found what is in my opinion an indisputable photo of Gerard Way doing the nu metal hands it's from a contact sheet of a photoshoot done by justin borucki somewhere in 2004 it was a very fun research :)
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