Being asked "Why you're always smoking" or "Why you're high all the time".

Hey y'all,

I wanted to ask how you feel about being asked this question. Obviously the context matters a lot, but generally curious to get your thoughts.

I was asked this by a person in my friend group I'm not very fond of, and my gut-reaction was to get mad, although I swallowed my reaction and just made a joke. I felt like it was a loaded question, but maybe my inner reaction was defensive? Not sure!