How to not fall in love with your therapist?

Disclaimer: not romantic. I genuinely wanna know more about their life. Idk if its because of power imbalance or limerence or transference. This happened with my psychiatrist as well. I completely idealised them. And this is affecting my day to day life. Maybe after the whole therapy ends, i want to become friends. Or idk something. It really hurts to feel that ill never be important to them as much as they are to me. And i am kind of egotistic to ever admit this to them. I know the obvious advice would be to talk it out with them but please suggest if there’s something else.