does anybody elses family really want them to have kids

my mom and grandma are soo insistent ill want kids when im older and its getting almost infuriating when the topic comes up because theyll always try to convince me im just young and dont know what i want . does any other family do this or is my family jst weird

more personal thing: ive discussed it with my bf, obviously we cant have kids anyways (gay trans dude struggles or whatever) but weve both expressed how neither of us will have enough time with our careers or likely be mentally stable enough and wouldnt wanna put that on any kid adopted or not . i tell this to my family and despite that they say “oh we'll take care of the baby! its okay!” like bro leave me alone I dont want kids!!!!!!!!!!