Olympic level MENTAL gymnastics going on here

Okay so WHAT was the point of saying you wanted to keep things to yourself and ~certain things are sacred and can be kept private, y'all~ when you're just going to post 293423 stories repeating over and over the date of the wedding? What's the difference between sharing that 2 months before and sharing that 1 month before? Or is it all because you just didn't want to share any wedding date knowing your real wedding date had already been exposed? Genuineeeeely confused

https://reddit.com/link/1ey8uhv/video/3u2bubo4s4kd1/player