Whitney: unpopular opinion

I think that Whitney receives a lot of hate that isn’t totally justified. All of these housewives have terrible traits, but Whitney recently uncovered some DEEP familial trauma, her husband is clearly neglectful, and her close friend just suddenly died. Lisa was EXTREMELY disrespectful in her response to Whitney, and I don’t understand how everyone sits here saying that she’s “unbearable.” If I were in Whitney’s position, I would be going APE on everyone for not being at my side during a hard time like that. And let’s be honest, Lisa IS extremely selfish and materialistic. I really don’t understand everyone’s problem with Whitney, but not with Lisa?? Whitney can be annoying and sometimes she can take things too far, but I really don’t think that the hate she receives is valid.