Recovering from surgery but really like this guy (35M), how do I (32F) make our date fun?
Hope this is okay to post here, know this might fit in r/dateideas, but I feel like it’s more of a relationship/dynamic question. How to make sure the date still feels fun and engaging despite my current limitations, and I’d love some advice on how to navigate that. Also… I kinda really like this guy, so I want to make it fun and memorable.
I’ve (32F) got a date coming up in two weeks with someone I kinda know, and the plan was to have dinner and play horror games (PS5) at his (35M) place. The thing is, I recently had brain surgery, and while I’m recovering well, I’m still dealing with some temporary vision issues (double vision and eye strain). That means screen time is pretty rough for me, and I also need a dark, low-stimulation environment to avoid getting exhausted.
At first, I considered postponing the date because I didn’t want to overcomplicate things or feel like a burden, but he’s been incredibly sweet about it and made it clear that he doesn’t care what we do, as long as we get to hang out. So now I’m trying to find some chill, screen-free activities that still feel like an actual date and not just me resting while he entertains me
I have a few ideas, like listening to a spooky audiobook or doing a blindfolded taste-testing game or trying some sort of interactive storytelling game. I’d love to hear more fun, low-energy suggestions for a cozy, at-home date. I also appreciate any advice on how to keep the dynamic fun and engaging. Bonus points if it’s playful or has a bit of a romantic vibe