How did you cope with the weight gain?

I never thought I would be as heavy as I am when I got pregnant.. I had a rough year emotionally last year and gained an additional 10 lbs beyond the point I was starting to be uncomfortable with the way I look. I hate myself in photos, and I know the weight is about to start coming.. 12 wks right now… I did IVF but maintained my weight through that process, so it’s not from that

I am extremely close with my sister and we see each other almost every other day, she’s probably 40-50 lbs lighter than me, and it’s a constant reminder of the body I used to have 3 years ago. Our mother died and she’s my biggest support system.

I just feel like I’m starting in the negative / behind where I want to be with my body. I just don’t know how to accept this part of the process.. I also don’t want to regret taking maternity photos, but I know I’ll just hate all of them. Any advice is welcome 🩷