Poly person wondering if they deserve support from partner

This is actually really sad, that OOP was brainwashed into thinking that needing emotional support from their partner is too much. Poly folks have an unhealthy obsession with hyper-independence, which proves how avoidant they are. Polyamory is riddled with rhetoric like "your feelings are not my problem".

Fundamentally, relationships are supposed to be about mutual support, about interdependence. What is the point of having multiple partners if you can't even feel safe and supported?