How much of your parents’ opinion do you still consider when switching jobs?

I’ve (29F) grown up with strict parents. Like bawal magkaboyfriend after college, no sleepovers, seldom gala with friends (need ng hatid sundo level)— but ofc, I violated all of that. Marami akong utang na stress sa kanila. But I feel like I’ve redeemed myself naman after I graduated, passed the boards, then worked na. I moved out of the house na rin, and I fully support myself.

I currently work in the healthcare industry (about 2 years now), with the plan to go abroad. But I’m still doubtful of this kasi super close ko sa family ko na feel ko di ko kakayanin mag-isa. I’m also an independent contractor (about 4 years) for a newsletter company.

Now, may offer ako mag full time sa isang hybrid position here sa PH, with stable hours and almost a 200% increase sa current pay ko sa hospital rn. However, I have to let go of my hospital work.

Hindi ko sure if ano magiging reaction ng parents ko here. Currently, I don’t plan on telling them my plan to resign from the hospital and switch careers. Alam ko na may masasabi sila about it but I can’t help but to want to explore this opportunity.

I’m so torn if magreresign ba ako or not (but I want to) and if sasabihin ko ba sa parents ko plan ko or pag nandun na lang ako. 🥺 what do you think?