I don’t think I can finish silver flames

Nesta sympathizers and I KNOW she’s a mess but I reallllllyyyyy am not liking how everyone treats her- especially Rhys once he looks into her mind and sees how BAD it is- so bad it freaks him out. It’s the hatred that cassian subscribes to her in chapter 49 I can’t even accept that they are mated because it completely denies everything SJM set us up to expect from mates. I’ve been trying to finish this book since October and I just keep getting annoyed and putting it down all advice welcome