Now it’s a me problem?

Hi, I’ve been in this sub for over a year now and this is my first post. My fiancé is currently seeing a licensed therapist that deals with porn addiction. He’s been seeing her for a month and is supposedly a month clean.

Well, just earlier today he had a talk with his therapist about our sex life, which is non-existent. We have sex MAYBE once a month. Well in that talk he told her that ever since I stopped agreeing to anal (over 2 years ago) the stimulation just isn’t the same.

I’m currently sick in bed, had to call into work and everything. This man walks into the room and asks if I’d be willing to try a vaginal tightening cream that his therapist suggested! WTF! I immediately went silent and tuned everything else out. Then he got defensive on me for shutting him out.

I’m only 26. I’ve had other partners that never had an issue having vaginal sex with me. Maybe focus on fixing your “death grip” before coming at me with that bs. And for his therapist to bring it up?! Just at a loss and really needed to vent on that one because WOW!