Kpop fans, your hypocrisy about idols and mental health awareness, along with your ableism is showing......and I'm TIED.
Ok.... so boom:
Renjun showed up at the airport the other day (NCT Dream is about to go somewhere) and first off.....
I really don't like when we as fans are constantly notified about them departing and arriving at the airport. I feel like this is such an intrusive thing that they shouldn't have to go through.... Like all it does imo is increase stress and adds chaos for people trying to travel and I wish SK would just let celebs go through a back door or something and be done with it....but anyways....
I saw Renjun and he looked so nice and he truly looked handsome...... Renjun always dresses well in general. I kinda wish people weren't out here sticking cameras in his damn face....like goodness idk how they do it.....
What bothers me about Renjun since he has come from hiatus is the amount of comments I keep seeing from nctzens and kpop fans alike about his appearance....especially his face and also his behaviour.....
It's no secret that he stepped away taking a moment for his mental health..... I still believe SM handled this entire situation poorly and I stand by that..... but anyways.....
Now that he's back..... you have people keep saying very rude and honestly VERY ableist comments towards him:
"he's changed...."
"he's not acting normal.....what is going on?"
"he looks fat....."
"he is so ugly now...."
"I miss the old Renjun...."
"Renjun acts so weird now....."
"he looks so sick....."
I'm SO tired......TIED....of hypocritical kpop fans claiming we should care about mental health awareness for idols and then they turn right around and bully someone for not acting "normal enough" including making disgusting comments about his appearance......
Some fans act like that after his hiatus he should just "snap out of it" or constantly picking apart everything he does and how he looks...... it's so incredibly cruel and ableist to assume that he somehow isn't "normal" now or that something is "wrong with him" now that he has gotten proper treatment and care and navigating that accordingly and approaching things differently......
He's not abnormal now....he's the same Renjun, y'all.... is he not a fucking human being out here? My goodness....
Anyone who has gone through something similar can testify to the fact that they've experienced this SAME unkind comments from others. I've experienced something similar myself and this could be why all this is really hitting a nerve for me.
It's clear that as much as kpop fans claim they care..... naw.....NAW, Y'ALL really fucking don't.
Seeing people wishing Moonbin Happy Birthday a couple of days ago..... and then seeing people continue to bully Renjun about his appearance and "how he's supposed to be normal now"...... I'm like yall's ass ain't learned NOTHING from the past..... and you don't really care about idols and their mental health AT ALL.
.
Ok.... so boom:
Renjun showed up at the airport the other day (NCT Dream is about to go somewhere) and first off.....
I really don't like when we as fans are constantly notified about them departing and arriving at the airport. I feel like this is such an intrusive thing that they shouldn't have to go through.... Like all it does imo is increase stress and adds chaos for people trying to travel and I wish SK would just let celebs go through a back door or something and be done with it....but anyways....
I saw Renjun and he looked so nice and he truly looked handsome...... Renjun always dresses well in general. I kinda wish people weren't out here sticking cameras in his damn face....like goodness idk how they do it.....
What bothers me about Renjun since he has come from hiatus is the amount of comments I keep seeing from nctzens and kpop fans alike about his appearance....especially his face and also his behaviour.....
It's no secret that he stepped away taking a moment for his mental health..... I still believe SM handled this entire situation poorly and I stand by that..... but anyways.....
Now that he's back..... you have people keep saying very rude and honestly VERY ableist comments towards him:
"he's changed...."
"he's not acting normal.....what is going on?"
"he looks fat....."
"he is so ugly now...."
"I miss the old Renjun...."
"Renjun acts so weird now....."
"he looks so sick....."
I'm SO tired......TIED....of hypocritical kpop fans claiming we should care about mental health awareness for idols and then they turn right around and bully someone for not acting "normal enough" including making disgusting comments about his appearance......
Some fans act like that after his hiatus he should just "snap out of it" or constantly picking apart everything he does and how he looks...... it's so incredibly cruel and ableist to assume that he somehow isn't "normal" now or that something is "wrong with him" now that he has gotten proper treatment and care and navigating that accordingly and approaching things differently......
He's not abnormal now....he's the same Renjun, y'all.... is he not a fucking human being out here? My goodness....
Anyone who has gone through something similar can testify to the fact that they've experienced this SAME unkind comments from others. I've experienced something similar myself and this could be why all this is really hitting a nerve for me.
It's clear that as much as kpop fans claim they care..... naw.....NAW, Y'ALL really fucking don't.
Seeing people wishing Moonbin Happy Birthday a couple of days ago..... and then seeing people continue to bully Renjun about his appearance and "how he's supposed to be normal now"...... I'm like yall's ass ain't learned NOTHING from the past..... and you don't really care about idols and their mental health AT ALL.
.