Anyone else demisexual?

So without going into detail I’ve had suspicions for a while but have now basically confirmed to myself and discovered that I am demisexual or atleast far along the spectrum of it , I’m also a straight male (which I’ve always know but just for context)

I was wondering if anyone else identifies with demi and what their experience has been like? And just if anyone has advice on how to approach dating etc now knowing that I am this?

Because being this I obviously need to be very emotionally vulnerable and invested with potential partners for me to be able to feel that connection that I need to fully be sexually attracted but I’m also aware this leaves me very open to being taken advantage of or hurt, especially with the way modern dating culture is were most want surface level, swipe to the next person, and everythings casual and no labels

my attachment style is already disorganised/fearful avoidant too which doesn’t help

Thanks 😊

Edit - thank you for all the detailed replies and insights , I’m wishing us all the best of luck in finding someone who understands our individual needs

Extra edit- sorry for the confusion of my word choice , just to clarify I am able to feel physically attracted to strangers (as in that person looks good and is attractive/visibility pleasing) but am not able to be sexually attracted (as in yes I want you) until there is an emotional bond