Unpopular opinion about Jessa

I feel like I’m the only one that feels this way, because I see other posts saying the complete opposite. I’m 37 years old, and I watched the show when it came out and re-watched it during the pandemic. To me the whole Jessa and Adam situation, is not that crazy. I have seen a similar situation play out in real life and literally people just get over it. Yes it hurts, but people move on. Life is messy and that’s just how life goes sometimes. I knew two people that dated the same guy, and the second iteration of relationship got married. They have kids now, and they aren’t terrible for pursuing a connection that made sense to them. Did Jessa handle it terribly? Yeah. But I didn’t expect her to handle it well. Her not handling it well made great television.

I think the reason why I feel that way is because I don’t see the girls on the show being real friends. They all went to college together, and have these loose connections and by the end theyre acquaintances at most. Marnie and Hannah were close to being real friends… but they were toxic. In your 20s, you have friends, but overtime those friendships become lose connections. Sometimes you get back into the swing of things and sometimes you don’t. I think that’s what the show was about. It was the anti-sex in the city in the sense that these people were friends starting out but ended up with completely different lives.