What has been the most healing/post-Mormon belief or realization you have experienced?

Obviously, after leaving the church, I had to deconstruct a lot of my beliefs and figure out what I actually believe.

One of the most healing beliefs I now have is that everything isn’t forgivable and everyone doesn’t deserve forgiveness . People don’t have a right to forgiveness. And the sin isn’t “on” me for refusing to forgive. Some people do horrendous, awful, disgusting, terrible things, and they’re NOT forgivable— the person and/or the atrocious act(s). The worth of those humans is not equal to mine or to other good people.

What’s your most healing belief in your post-Mormon life?

Also, I just need to say that I never imagined being happy and free like I am now. When I started my journey of leaving the church, I felt scared, alone, and ashamed. To anyone reading this that is just beginning theirs, I promise it gets better. 💜