Christians need to learn what the word no means

I have relatives who are Christians who just cannot wrap their head around the idea that I don't want to be a christian. I don't like Christianity. I don't like christians. Is that prejudice? Maybe. But it's kind of hard for me to sympathize with people who are religious because they weren't born religious. I had a lot of people who are Christians tell me nonsense like something really bad must have happened to me to not be a Christian. I said to them most of the time you're right, something bad did happen. That bad thing that happened was you. You're dishonest arguments, you're misrepresentation of my positions, and the constant lying to yourself and everyone else around you. You're damn right something bad happened. Christians are what happened.