Thoughts on Bi Accessories

Hey there!

Over the years I have ran into some kind of problem. People's first impressions of me are either straight man or "flaming homosexual." Clarification only comes after they get to talk to me and ask me at some point down the road about it. I have a friend who has truly achieved the "Bisexual look", and people instantaneously know she is bi. I think part of this is that she dresses "like a bi person" and I do not have the confidence in my own body to dress like she does. My only other alternative is wearing a ring or a bracelet with bi colors to subtly hint at it, but I know some people even in the queer community might say that's tacky or corny.