Anyone regret having #2?
I always see “you grow another heart” and similar sentiments when people are talking about their second child. I see people talking about, how they love their second but they wish they had waited. And then I see people who have been one and done say they are happy with their decision.
I want to phrase this question like this: if you didn’t know how much you love your second, would you have chosen to stop at one?
I had a very rough pregnancy (to put it mildly) and while my husband really really wants a bigger family he is also scared about me being pregnant again. Myself? On one hand I would like another but every day with my kiddo is fun and pretty chill.
I always hear from people who have got 0 complaints with having another and I guess I’m just looking for a different perspective.