crippling anxiety, nothing has helped. How do I go about mentioning a benzodiazepine?

I’ve tried zoloft, buspar, lexapro, an hydroxyzine. Nothing has helped whatsoever, in all honesty i just feel worse now than ever before :/ my anxiety an insomnia is terrible i can’t leave my house without the guidance of a parent or another person who can kinda take care of me, i’m 18 and i’m a male i shouldn’t feel this way. idk being anxious leads to me having really bad depression and some rough thoughts… I don’t wanna be seen as a drug seeker but i really don’t know what to try, I really don’t want to try another ssri. What can i tell my psychiatrist in hopes of finding something that can help with my anxiety an insomnia.