ADHD brains, I need you! Surgery recovery + date night dilemma

Hey fellow ADHD queens! This might be a bit of a weird one, but I need your creative brains. I’m recovering from brain surgery and have a date coming up, but screens are off the table, and I need something low-energy but still fun and engaging despite my current limitations. I’d love some advice on how to navigate that. Also… I kinda really like this guy, so I want to make it fun and memorable. Since ADHD brains are elite at kreative and out-of-the-box solutions I figured this was the perfect place to ask.

I’ve (f32) got a date coming up in two weeks with someone I kinda know, and the plan was to have dinner and play horror games (PS5) at his (m35) place. The thing is, I recently had brain surgery, and while I’m recovering well, I’m still dealing with some temporary vision issues (double vision and eye strain). That means screen time is pretty rough for me, and I also need a dark, low-stimulation environment to avoid getting exhausted.

At first, I considered postponing the date because I didn’t want to overcomplicate things or feel like a burden, but he’s been incredibly sweet about it and made it clear that he doesn’t care what we do, as long as we get to hang out. So now I’m trying to find some chill, screen-free activities that still feel like an actual date and not just me resting while he entertains me.

I have a few ideas, like listening to a spooky audiobook or doing a blindfolded taste-testing game or trying some sort of interactive storytelling game. I’d love to hear more fun, low-energy suggestions for a cozy, at-home date. I also appreciate any advice on how to keep the dynamic fun and engaging. Bonus points if it’s playful or has a bit of a romantic vibe.