Ogden cult church- Refuge

I have family members that attend Refuge “reformed church” in Ogden. They practice hateful teachings there that encompass hate, radicalization, and the “quiver-full” mindset to where 18-22 year olds are having multiple children.. when they can’t even afford them. They preach women are below men and that they are “meek” and “gentle souls” . Their main pastor tweets hateful tweets and solely self promotes- i fully don’t believe he is a pastor to serve God, but rather himself through promotion of his books, podcasts, and music. They already went viral once for saying empathy is a sin… but it’s so concerning some more of their tweets. Anyone have personal experience attending?