Debating tundra vs gx460 coming from a Tacoma

Now that I have 2 kids the tundra is maxed out. I can't put a car seat behind me and drive the taco. I am 6,3.

I found a 19 trd pro tundra for 35k and a 2020 gx for 35k

I have to have 4x4 since I do a lot of beach driving and some mild rugged camping.

Tundra pros Massive Can basically do anything off road I need.

Cons Mpg- I drive 40 miles a day

Wife can't drive it

No push button start

No apple car play

Also massive and kinda a pain to drive around

Gx pro

Wife can drive it

More comfy

3rd row

Cons

No bed

Premium gas

Possibly higher maintenance

Still torn on what to do. I absolutely love the tundra but the mpg is really making it a hard choice.