Do we overlook this in FOURever you?

I really love Jo and North as a couple - it’s very cute and feeds into my delulu BL obsessed brain BUT, I am also well aware of the importance of representing healthy relationships, and healthy relationships are what should feel romantic to us.

And despite all that, Jo and North are not exactly ideal - Jo is controlling and North (I know they tried to make him have a bit of autonomy) but I really don’t like that Jo throws his money around so much to get his way and North succumbs to that a lot.

Similar with Ter and Hill, this daddy and his sugar baby vibe is fantasy I know and that’s cute (I begrudgingly enjoy it so much) but I wonder if it’s bad for us😅 maybe watching it, and enjoying it is fine as long as we watch it mindfully.

We have come a long way since shows like TharnType and those other one where no consensual kissing was all we saw and kidnapping and obsessive stalking is overlooked but this is also not great.

Idk, it’s sort of a rant - I’d like to know your thoughts?