Anyone elses sparkle for upcoming shows being dimmed by Matty Healy?

So to some extent we all separate the art from the artist, but so much of Taylor's art is well, Taylor. This isn't people being mad she dumped Joe or any other trivial thing, this is someone who (supposedly) holds feminist egalitarian values dating someone who thinks Nazi jokes are funny and gets off on black women being hurt. Like, I want to be excited for the concert of a lifetime but how can I be? Ugh