Theories about Feyre's memory

Ok, this might have been discussed before but as a new reader I was rereading MAF and caught this. Feyre's memories seem to be twisted and altered. None of what she's remembering happened or at least happened like she's remembering it. I get being bitter at an ex bf and on top of that dealing with trauma but girl... Tamlin did do something for you, a huge thing that cost him everything. He let you go back home to where he thought you would be safe knowing that he was damning himself and his court. He absolutely did more than enough considering he said goodbye to the woman he loves and also had to go with Amarantha has a slave at her whim. He literally had no leverage at all with Amarantha.

Also Feyre was the one who went for his belt not Tamlin!! She wanted to fuck. Which I get sex helps with stress lol. But that isn't the what happened.

Lucien very well put himself in danger twice for Feyre. First UTM when he yelled out to her and healed her. Then got whipped as a punishment and Amarantha had his healing power stripped. Which Lucien almost died anyway because she couldn't read but I digress. Not to mention in MAF he stands up for Feyre repeatedly and gets abused for it. Meanwhile Rhys says he wished he could've spared Feyre... how about not sexually assaulting her and forcing her into a magic bargain? It's actually his fault Feyre and Tam ended up UTM anyways lol. So sure, that makes sense.

Lastly, both Tamlin and Feyre were bad at communicating their needs and fears. Had there been some actual adult conversations had maybe it might have been different. Feyre acts as if Tamlin can read her mind unlike Rhys who can.

Which brings me to my next point. There are clues in MAF that Rhys who has Daemati powers could've altered what Feyre remembers. I think I've seen theories on it on the main sub about other characters too. But honestly why wouldn't he? Rhys has admitted to it before and it would make sense if he did because he did some fucked up things to Feyre that can never be justified. Either that or Sjm is trying to retcon everything but TAR is right there with proof of what actually went down. Not sure if Sjm did this on purpose or just sloppy in her writing.