Fandom gender

as i told you, yesterday i got to watch “commitment”. my husband said “i understand why you like this guy, wow he’s the right mix of sexy and cute at the same time”. so now my husband is a top kid too. from this fact i’m curious: are we all girls or are there some boys too? or some non-binary or something?

what do you identify with? (Answer only if you feel like it, I apologize if this question seems inappropriate, I was just curious, I might delete it)