A Certain Funeral

So I'm rewatching through and I'm on S10 E22 and it's Charlie's funeral. Dean says to Sam that it should be "him up there not her" (on the pyre.) We're supposed to believe after almost 11 seasons of these boys putting each other above everything, even the fate of the world, that he'd rather Sam was dead than Charlie? Yeah, fuck that lol. It's no secret I think Charlie is one of the worst characters in the series but the way they try to force her in and make her "like a sister" to them is just crazy. And that line, after EVERYTHING else we've seen between the brothers is just insane. I get he's angry at Sam for lying, but it's just one last incident of them shoving Charlie down our throats. Queue the downvote brigade from the Charlie stans, but it would be nice to have an honest conversation.