Some people on this sub are highly annoying

Lately I've been seeing people heavily judging students getting into a relationship and poore comment section ko bhar rakha hai koi uske against jaye toh usse ladne lagte hai and they say stuffs.

First off, guys, being in a relationship as a student doesn’t automatically mean someone is irresponsible or distracted. Balance and maturity define a person, not their relationship status. There are people who are single and still unproductive, and there are those in relationships who manage their academics and goals efficiently.

Second, personal choices shouldn’t be subjected to public scrutiny. A relationship is a part of life, not a deviation from it. Just because someone is in love doesn’t mean they’ve given up on their ambitions. It’s unfair to stereotype every couple as careless or immature.

Third, growth is personal. Some people thrive with emotional support from a partner, while others prefer solitude. Both ways are valid. Dismissing someone’s potential just because they’re in a relationship is ignorant.

Lastly, stop the hypocrisy. The same people who preach about ‘letting others live’ are the first to bash students for dating. If you’re so concerned about productivity, maybe start by focusing on your own growth instead of policing others' personal lives.

Let people make their own choices and learn from them. Life isn’t just about academics or love—it’s about finding your own balance. AND PLEASE people come here for suggestions/ venting not to be a part of your roast nahi pasand hai toh scroll ahead. Dimag kharab kar diya hai.