Is this how humans actually speak

So I have ASD and I don't really talk to people much so I don't get a lot of human interaction, recently I have been watching some 'when your accent slips out' on tiktok and they have a conversation which then leads up to their accent slipping out. I find these conversations very weird, they are so monotone and are always talking about plans 'what plans do you have for today' The only person who asks me this is my father and when he does I get uncomfortable and leave, also they always are talking about food 'where do you want to go to eat' I would have seen eating as a more private thing.