Klonopin usage while pregnant

Hi all- My husband, mother and OB have made me convinced my baby is going to come out not okay.

I’ve read through some posts on here regarding moms taking Klonopin during their pregnancy and have felt immense relief. I tapered off my prescription a few weeks ago, as I entered week 20. I was prescribed 2mg / day. My first OB encouraged me to keep taking it as he was younger and said the research is outdated, etc as some of you lovely mommas have reassured other expecting moms on here. This is my first pregnancy (out of 4 ) that has it to the second trimester. My anatomy scan was great. No complications or issues at all so far.

My question may seem backwards but I am asking for my sense of relief and for my mother and husband as this is becoming an every day discussion of how I “already ruined our son/grandson’s life” and my anxiety over this is almost becoming debilitating: Is there anything you did to try to reverse the possible effects of taking Xanax / klonopin during your pregnancy? Has anyone noticed side effects after having their baby? I am very very nervous that he is going to have issues because of my usage. I would appreciate any and all stories, good or bad, and advice, you have. Thank you 🙏🏻