I grow 2-5 hairs in EVERY follicle and waxing/shaving doesn’t help and it’s causing ingrown everywhere. Advice??

I don’t wanna include a picture because where it’s most noticeable is an incident area (bodies currently shaved) but it’s on my scalp, too, so I thought maybe this would be a good place to ask

I’ve googled this and got threads on people who get it in a couple follicles, in certain areas of the body, etc. it’s every single follicle. All of them. At least 2 hairs per follicle, no exception. My head, my body, everything.

It’s causes a fuck ton of ingrowns because I can grow up to 5 in certain follicles. It’s painful and irritating. I’ve had my whole body waxed, even my head. I’ve tried removal creams, shaving, etc. it grows back the same way, every single time.

I exfoliate regularly. I have great skin and scalp care. Wtf is this? What can I do to get rid of it, or at least minimize scalp irritation?