Maybe the wrong sub for me?

Currently in cycle 9 TTC and also 16 months PP & still nursing. I am reading TCOYF to better understand my cycle since I’m having a significantly harder time conceiving this time around. Someone led me to this sub but just glancing at some of the posts it seems like I have to do the method to the letter in order to get support here. I still plan on using LH strips while also charting BBT, CM, & potentially cervical position though that seems like it’ll take me a bit to master. I use fertility friend for my charting app. Should I stick to r/TFABchartstalkers ? Or are “good attempts” at a FAM acceptable for this sub?