Delete your ex's n*des NOW!!!
I've been seeing a lot of posts asking whether to delete SpiCeY photos/videos of their ex partners or not, and that honestly pissed me off so badly. You might not agree with me, sure, but I thought that it was common sense to get rid of something that you only acquired because you were together. Like sex, bjs or whatever, nudes were given to you within that said relationship (or situationship, for that matter), and when it ends you no longer have access to those things, so you shouldn't keep the photos/videos/audios/whatever either. It's painful to get rid of them, sure. I was sobbing when I had to delete my ex's photos, not even nudes, but I did it anyway because he was no longer my person. Your ex sent you these things because they trusted you their body, their desires and they were willing to show you those horny parts of them so to say. They no longer trust you their body. Delete them! It's hard, no one says it's easy, but getting off to your ex's photos/vids MONTHS after the breakup is truly and utterly disgusting. Get some help. When I imagine my ex using something I only gave him because I loved him and trusted him I want to throw up. And yes, I am the dumpee, and yes, I did miss sex with him, found him attractive still, and even had wet dreams about him. But I deleted everything as soon as we broke up, because it was the matter of privacy. Not even respect, it's just something that shouldn't ever be questioned. If you can't do this, get some help.