Ryman blues

I purchased a ticket to the Ryman show tonight. I foolishly thought I was the luckiest person in the world that a ticket costing less than the size of a small apartment was available. The seller never transferred the ticket. StubHub just sent a refund, but long story short, I'm sitting here in pajamas ordering take out pretending I don't care when in actuality I will have a full blown wine-induced meltdown shortly. Assuming this happens often? Or is it Karma for spending a paycheck on the ticket in the first place, considering the state of the world right now... Do you know someone who means well but forgot to transfer their ticket tonight? I need a hug.