It’s always accusations and never concerns

Been feeling sick and coughing a lot for the past month. It wasn’t until yesterday that they asked why I’m coughing and they stated it’s because I eat too many fried things. Which, I literally haven’t. All I’ve eaten is soup. But bold of them to just throw out assumptions like that. It’s never in their instinct to worry about me, but to blame. Not just when I’m sick but in all areas of my life.