AITAH for not accepting a neighbours back handed apology

The othe night my partner and I were woken up by a neighbours cad alarm at 2:30am. I got up thinking it might have been one our cars and grabbed all the keys to disarm the alarms turns out it was a neighbours. It went on for another 5 minutes with no one in that house waking up to turn it off. I went over to the house to knock on the door to let them know. Unfortunately their front door is behind locked gates that I didn't want to go through to respect them. Eventually next door to them called them and the neighbour went to the front window to try and disarm the alarm. They tried to disarm it 10+ times hoenstly probably 20 times without success. I got impatient and yelled out to come outside and sort it. Eventually it was turned off I couldn't go back to sleep for another 2 hours and only got 1 hour fo sleep after that. I had slept in and nearly late to work but crap happens and the past is the past so I just moved on. Unfortunately the owner of the car didn't think so and came over the next day whilst I wasn't home and talked to my partner. They lead with an apology but then finished up saying they don't appreciate being yelled at at 2:30am. I didn't expect an apology and couldn't care about one crap happens in streets that you're cranky about in the moment but move on cause it's not that big of a deal at the end of the day. My partner thinks I should of handled it better. I agreed I'd have handled it better if it was 2:30 in the afternoon but 230 in the morning you can't expect people to be woken up in a good mood. I think the neighbour only came ove to apologise to be able to have a stab at me and feel justified and not have to accept she woke people up. Am I the asshole to laughing at the idea of going over an apologising after we were given a back handed apology.