AIO for refusing to change my shampoo and conditioner until I’m told what is safe to replace it with?

Am I overreacting for considering moving out, and not replacing my soaps until I know what my roommate can tolerate?

My roommate told me the house was a "green" house when I moved in - emphasizing composting and avoiding harsh cleaning products - no problem. Come to find out after every single soap, wash, and cleaning product I own is too harsh, but I haven't been told in over a year what to buy instead. I was asked to buy gentler products, so I did buy organic gentler products from small companies and sometimes Whole Foods, but those are also triggering. We do not share a bathroom, and I live on a lower level of the house. In my room, I am not allowed to use perfume, nail polish, or hair spray of any kind.

To date, I've replaced: Shampoo x 3 Conditioner x 3 Toilet bowl cleaner x 3 (I'm out of "gentle" brands to use) Spray cleaner, powder (now use only vinegar) Face wash Dishwasher soap (now I pay her to buy her preferred kind) Dish soap (again, I pay her) Hand soap (I pay her, she hasn't told me where she buys the bar soap that she prefers)

I tried to be clear and firm, but she refuses to give me information. I made her dinner last night because she recently confronted me about “living like two people in a hotel, without contact” and she requested we not mix social time with resolving this problem.. I'm not sure what to do.