AIO? Started talking to a woman on a dating app, got asked if I’d be ready to be a step father in a year

A little more context, we had matched on a dating app that afternoon and had switched to IG so I could send her pictures of my recent arm injury. The conversation was nice, easy, flirtatious, and also somewhat deep. At a point we started talking about what we need to do to recharge when overstimulated and she mentioned it’s hard to find time to be alone when you have kids which I empathized with. That led to this exchange and I can KIND of understand if I came off brusque but I was so taken aback by the question that I felt I had to draw a very definitive line in the sand.

A little more info, I’m 30(m), she’s 31. She also lives about 4 hours away from me, so I didn’t think it needed to be this serious this fast. And at another point in the conversation she’d casually asked about my being open to moving to her city. To which I replied with generally the same answer I gave her.

So AIO? I just think it’s very strange to ask essentially a stranger if they’re ready to be a step father in a year. Like I mentioned in my message I understand having standards, but putting that kind of pressure on someone you just met in the dating world sounds a bit unfair. Feel free to say I’m wrong :) Ciao!