i didn’t have the college experience and i feel like i’m missing out. how do i stop feeling this way?

hey yall. so i graduate college reallyyy soon and i feel like i didn’t have the college experience everyone talks about. i went into college hoping to have my own share of “the best 4 years” of my life but it never really felt that way. i didn’t really make a deep connection with anyone, and the friends i had didn’t last cos after the class was over, we’d go our different ways. i also commuted so i couldn’t go to the parties (not that i was really interested in that) or hang out with friends frequently. now i graduate soon and i still haven’t had that experience. its makes me sad because making friends and having fun after college is supposedly hard. i find myself being envious of other people in college or people that are about to start college. i’m trying to tell myself that the main goal of college is not to have fun with friends, but to get the degree and get out. i’m just worried about making connections with people if i couldn’t do it in college yk. i’m hoping life after college and my 20’s is kinder.